What is the CAFCASS Parenting Plan: A Guide for Separated Parents

What is the CAFCASS Parenting Plan: A Guide for Separated Parents
When going through a separation or divorce, making arrangements for your children can be one of the most emotionally challenging tasks. That’s where the CAFCASS parenting plan comes in. Designed to support separated parents in creating a clear, child-focused agreement, the plan helps outline how you’ll continue to care for your children after parting ways.
What is a CAFCASS Parenting Plan?
The CAFCASS (Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service) parenting plan is a written agreement that covers all aspects of your child’s life — from living arrangements and contact schedules to schooling, holidays, and communication.
While it’s not legally binding, it can be incredibly helpful in avoiding misunderstandings and future disputes. The goal is to put your child’s needs at the heart of every decision.
Why Use a Parenting Plan?
Creating a parenting plan with the help of CAFCASS offers several key benefits:
- Clarity: Everyone knows what’s expected, reducing the risk of confusion.
- Stability: Your child has a more structured and consistent routine.
- Co-operation: Encourages positive communication and co-parenting.
- Avoids Court: A well-thought-out parenting plan can help families stay out of family court.
What Does the CAFCASS Parenting Plan Include?
The plan usually covers the following areas:
- Living arrangements – Where your child will live, and when they’ll spend time with each parent.
- Education – Schooling decisions, homework routines, and parent-teacher involvement.
- Health care – Medical decisions and how information will be shared.
- Holidays and special days – How birthdays, Christmas, and school holidays will be handled.
- Communication – How your child will stay in contact with the other parent, and how parents will communicate.
You can download the free CAFCASS Parenting Plan from the CAFCASS website and complete it together, or with the help of a mediator if needed.
Is the CAFCASS Parenting Plan Legally Binding?
No, the parenting plan itself is not a court order. However, if both parents agree to the terms and stick to them, it can provide a strong foundation for future co-parenting. If necessary, the contents of the plan can be used in court to show your intentions and what’s been agreed so far.
Tips for Making the Most of the CAFCASS Parenting Plan
- Put your child first – Always prioritise their well-being, stability, and happiness.
- Be realistic – Choose arrangements you can both reasonably stick to.
- Stay flexible – Life changes, and your parenting plan might need adjusting as your child grows.
- Seek support – Consider mediation or legal advice from a public access family barrister if you're struggling to reach agreement.
Final Thoughts
The CAFCASS parenting plan is a practical tool for separated parents to work together in the best interests of their children. It helps turn emotional uncertainty into clear, structured decisions that support healthy co-parenting and minimise conflict.
For many families, taking the time to complete a parenting plan is one of the most constructive steps they can take after separation.
For family law advice and / or family court representation contact Stephanie Heijdra direct access Family Barrister
sheijdra@winvolvedlegal.co.uk
02071014682









